Last Spring, I broke up with a guy who sincerely said that he had wanted to remain friends. We were great friends before we got involved so there was a lot of grief when I didn’t here from him for three months. I felt like a dime a dozen, a drop in the bucket, not important, and not special. This feeling went back to my childhood where I was raised in a family of eleven children. Because it was humanly impossible for my parents to give me the attention I needed, I had internalized that I wasn’t important or special.
It was a rather uncomfortable week of stretching and transmuting these feelings and validating my own importance. My usual processing techniques didn’t feel like enough to heal these deep wounds. So I enlisted Dale and Carol to work their magic on me. I had my session with them on Thursday and by Sunday I got a call from the ex-boyfriend. He called to tell me how much he valued our friendship and that he really missed our great conversations. My intent for the session was to heal these issues but I was absolutely surprised by how rapidly my paradigm shifted! Thank you! - J.W., Bainbridge Island